Here’s a great letter about sex from Anna: “Dear Sirens (and Rori, of course) – reading this great post, I feel I finally need to ask for help! I’ve been thinking about this thing over and over in my mind, I’ve discussed and analyzed it with my friends again and again, but some experienced advice…

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Here’s a horror story from “Soon-To-Be-Broken-Heart” – and it’s actually something that men do all the time when they don’t want to be in a relationship or can’t be. We’re always shocked by this move of withdrawing sex – but many, many men do it this way… Rori, I’m 23 years old, I have been…

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This is such a great speech by Esther Perel – I just bought her book. At first glance, you think she’s going to talk about “games and strategies” to create mystery and distance in a relationship, and tell us all not to be close, intimate, friendly or cuddly with our men….and then, as you read,…

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How do you go first to deepen intimacy when you’re working with the experience of sex? (This is Part 3 of the 3-Part Sex and Intimacy Series – Here’s Part 1->) Without initiating? Without doing ANYTHING? You open up, baby step by baby step – and see what he does. Even if he does NOTHING…

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Sex is such an important thing – not because it’s so crucial to be having sex for sex’s sake (though it makes us healthier in so many ways…) but because it’s such a serious barometer for the health and intimacy level of a relationship. It says so much about the physical and emotional status of…

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