When It’s Time To Cut Bait And Let It Be Over

Here’s a letter I wrote to Diana – a client who’s been with a difficult man, John, long-distance, for a very long time. Although she’s chosen to continue with this man, while also “Circular Dating” (without real interest), and although I would have had her dump him years ago – I stick to my rules…

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11 Things I Do When I Feel Upset

11 things I do when I feel upset… 1. I want to hit him, or someone else out there because of the “pain he’s caused me” – or the pain someone else has caused someone or something else. 2. Then I want to do a “spiritual bypass” and thank him, or them, for the learning…

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Leaning Back Needs Warmth, Too

The Question: Hi Rori, I’ve been dating this guy for 10 months, and the other day he informed me that he felt that he was doing more in the relationship than I was. I’m not sure what this means. I have been under the assumption from the tapes that a man should be the more…

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What To Do When He Wants You To Pay For Yourself

The Question: Rori, I’m following your advice to CD while still dating my ex-husband…and it really helps. I’m happier and more content that way and he has to come to me most of the time now, because I won’t initiate contacts. Last Monday I met this wonderful guy on my trip in a different state.…

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If He Forgets Your Gift – Valentine’s Day, Birthday…

Gift giving is fraught with possible horrible outcomes: You don’t like what he gives you. He doesn’t give you something “good” enough. He forgets altogether. You give him something great and then suffer with expectations about what HE’LL give YOU. You harbor feelings, resentments, and are so much in the future and the past you’re…

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