About Grief, Misery, And Feeling “Low”

There’s NO way to prevent, stop, or compromise your feelings – and you don’t want to. No matter how unpleasant they are  – or “might be.” If you can use your conscious, mindful attention to stay aware of what’s going on inside you and around you, and then use whatever “idea” you can plant into…

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Dancing With Your Boy and Girl Energy

Here’s a comment from Linda – (I just love dancing with my girl and boy energies – I used to struggle, and now I find it fun to make these choices to fall into “being” …and this comment is a great jumping off place…) – Linda says: “I struggle with my “boy energy”. I have…

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Let Him Take The Lead- And Have The Strength To Follow

This is a guest post from Erin Ginkel – she sent me this out of the blue, and I thought it was so terrific, I wanted you to see it…I’ve since got in touch with her – and she really is terrific. She’s a life and relationship coach and you can find her here: www.alwayschallengeunhappiness.net…

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From Then To NOW

When I was younger, I was a singer-songwriter. I used to sing in coffee houses and at college events all around UCLA, and at “open mic” nights.  After that, I was lucky enough to become a professional and make a living in bands, singing groups and trying to break out on my own – like…

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Shredding The Originals And Starting This Moment

Every morning I get one of these “Notes From The Universe” from Tut.com and I look forward to them, I save them, I print them out, I put them on my wall.  Sometimes they make my day.  They always get me going, and sometimes they put such a quick positive, happy spin on things I…

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Self-Respect Or Protection – Which Is It?

There’s a conversation going on here in the comments, and it’s terrific, and I want to thank Daria for starting it, and Matt, for showing up here as such a smart, conscious, good man, and providing such a concrete balance to the perceptions we women develop about men our whole lives – I want to…

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Be Your Heart And Get HIS Heart

This fabulous letter is from Pamela Tames, who has a great site http://SeasonedSex.com – and to me – it just speaks so powerfully about how we all go to our “Default” position when we don’t feel comfortable – and how getting aware of what that is for each of us, and using my Tools to…

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Soft In The Kitchen – How To Get A Man To Step Up

I feel like a just got run over by a truck – on my feet and onstage for 8 hours at my Targeting Mr. Right seminar and product taping yesterday (it will be out in March)…I wanted to answer more and more questions – so you’ll be seeing a lot of talk about Circular Dating…

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