Hi, I’ve closed an older post for relationship questions because it’s hard for you to read with so many on the screen.  So here’s a new one! Please know…if I don’t answer you right away…it likely slipped by me (if so, try again, please…), or I’m trying to put it together into an eletter or…

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Hi – the older post for answering your questions is getting so huge it’s hard to get to them all…so here’s a fresh place for you to start asking new ones and helping each other. So that everything we do here is helpful to you to having the relationship you want – when you share…

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Here’s my answer for Baby Blue Eyes – First – the question: “Hi Rori, I have a question for you about the ‘Girlfriend Trap.’ I love the concept, but if a man officially asks a lady to be his ‘girlfriend,’ how does one decline – without putting him ‘off’?” And here’s my answer: Blue Eyes…

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This is from Maria’s comment: “My boyfriend and I for almost 2 years now are often more off than on. (On and Off) Of course I’ve done all the things should not do. However he told me he needed some space away from me. Has stopped calling me. I know we love each other, but…

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This is fantastic! I’m truly starting to get a fuller idea of who you are and what your situation is – and yet I’m going to answer just off of each comment, as if I don’t know you, to give a better answer… FIRST – it’s important that you know we are all DIFFERENT. Our…

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We’re talking about attracting and then rejecting “low-quality” men – or just men YOU don’t feel are good quality. And we’re talking about what to do with those men for PRACTICE (and perhaps even TRANSFORMING them) instead of passing on them and shutting them out the moment their bad qualities show up. This answer is…

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