Oh my! – Alicia did all this research and gave us a list and links of all my free video clips on www.youtube.com – it will help you so much if don’t already have the programs…You can go to Alicia’s comment – where all the links are live (comment starting #135) or just take a look at the list below:

All the clips are around two minutes. Watch these or email this post to your friends.

Toxic Men Videos (click to get the full playlist)

  1. Toxic Men DVD Sample
  2. Being Stuck on Not Changing
  3. Is He a Toxic Man?
  4. Detox Your Love Life
  5. Feeling Secure with Your Man
  6. Relationship as Therapy


Modern Sirens Videos
(click to get the full playlist)

  1. The Road to Love
  2. Lure of the Siren
  3. Be the Lighthouse
  4. Your Feelings and Him
  5. Strong and Steady
  6. Declare your Independence
  7. Modern Siren DVD Sample

Targeting Mr. Right (click to get the full playlist)

  1. Step into your Power *MUST WATCH
  2. The Diva Creed *MUST WATCH
  3. The Price of Commitment
  4. You Are The Target
  5. Targeting Mr. Right DVD Sample

Commitment Blueprint (click to get the full playlist)

  1. Commitment Blueprint DVD Sample
  2. Light His Fire
  3. Up Your Status
  4. Create More Intrigue
  5. How He Falls
  6. Now and Forever
  7. Are you Exclusive?
  8. The Magic Moment
  9. Men and Exclusivity
  10. The Loving Feeling

Alicia – again, thank you so much for this!

I’ll try embedding them here, too – one at a time…but going to youtube rocks! Love, Rori

26 Comments

  1.  #1Sweetpea on June 14, 2010 at 6:20 pm

    Thank you Alicia! Thank you Rori! This is great!



  2.  #2Brenda on June 14, 2010 at 7:15 pm

    Let’s do all we can to help Rori in her wonderful career! AND to help women have successful, happy, connected, loving relationships!

    Rori, you are a very wise lady, and I am so blessed to have found you and your materials!



  3.  #3Simply Shannon on June 14, 2010 at 7:42 pm

    Just watched them! Thank you Rori for your work and thank you Alicia for pulling these together. I feel grateful.



  4.  #4EternalOptimist on June 15, 2010 at 7:09 am

    Hi Rori,
    Just want to join in the “THANK YOU” chorus!
    I can’t believe how much I’ve grown in 4months….
    your ebook, CDs and this blog..I feel energized



  5.  #5Tina on June 15, 2010 at 7:42 am

    Thank you for reminding me that FEELING is moving forward 🙂



  6.  #6Tina on June 15, 2010 at 8:01 am

    I want to grow and change 🙂



  7.  #7Alicia on June 15, 2010 at 2:25 pm

    Thanks Rori & Sirens!

    My female perception just used Rori’s “outfits” to figure out what groups they belonged too. Since they were different for each program she taught.

    On youtube they are all mixed in together. My girl energy picked up on the clothes lol.. .. kinda funny but it worked great for me 🙂

    I opened two screens and would go back in fourth between the list I made.. (might help) Or just go thru utube and follow the ones with her in the same top.. Then pick a different top and watch all those and so on and so on.. haha.. Fashion Senses… my 7th sense. lol.

    The video’s are all so helpful! It feels so good to hear the message as well..



  8.  #8Brenda on June 15, 2010 at 6:48 pm

    Alicia,

    That’s really nice you did all that! I feel really good about helping Rori share her tools with women and help women to have the relationship they want!

    I have emailed “Delilah” of the Delilah Show to encourage her to check out Rori’s CD seminars and send people to her. Many people who call in look to Delilah for relationship advice. I keep picturing Rori on Delilah’s show as a guest, or at least for Delilah to recommend Rori to people who are looking for answers!

    How do you feel about that?



  9.  #9Brenda on June 15, 2010 at 6:49 pm

    P.S. I would really love to see all of us email Delilah to get Rori Raye on her radar!!!! I think Rori is an exceptional relationship coach! I feel so good about how much my life and relationships all around have changed for the better!



  10.  #10Daria on June 15, 2010 at 7:04 pm

    I want to share and maybe when I’m feelin grumpy aagical fairy or two will remind me … Eating seaweed feels yummy after! My thoughts kik up amazingly! I feel great when eArlier I felt zombified. Chai cola is bomb too.



  11.  #11Alicia on June 15, 2010 at 9:59 pm

    Brenda –

    I agree.. I even thought about writing Oprah.. haha. But, I feel like we would need a petition or a bunch of women signatures to send in as well.. lol.. So it would stand out. :O)



  12.  #12Brenda on June 15, 2010 at 10:36 pm

    Well I thot if a whole bunch of us contacted either Delilah or Oprah or both, that whoever processes their mail would be like, hey, wow, check this out D or O, we’ve had 50 people turn us on to this wonderful relationship coach, RORI RAYE!!! 🙂



  13.  #13Ankita on June 16, 2010 at 8:56 am

    Thanks Alicia…

    Thanks Rori….

    <3…. 🙂 🙂



  14.  #14Lisa on June 16, 2010 at 11:17 am

    Dear Rori,

    Thank you so much for your generosity to all of us. Per previous commenters: It would be fabulous if Rori could get a spot on Oprah — I’ll sign a petition! Imagine a world movement to make better men and women — now that’s something that would reduce the level of misery in the world!

    I am looking forward to blocking some time to view your wonderful vids. I consider any time spent with you like going to “Sanity U.” You have helped me so much, and I tell everyone I can about you and your work.

    Bravissima 🙂



  15.  #15Hope on June 16, 2010 at 5:17 pm

    Hello Rori, Sirens
    Im sorry for the misplacment of this question but its all i knew how to ask it.
    I love your insight and have used all Rori’s tools to end up in a relationship that I have enjoyed very much but has now become very difficult. I dated My man for a year and a half. From the very beginning I got a lot out of the relationship and he continued to offer more so I assume he was enjoying it just a much. I let him know right away that I was not looking for a BF and that marriage was a goal/value for me. He also stated that he was not looking for a GF but did not see himself getting married anytime soon. ( I’m mid 20’s he just turned 30 ). He was hot so I slept with him after about a month. I continued to date other men for about 9 months. I knew he was seeing another women (I checked his phone, he said they were just friends) but the relationship was serving me so well I/we kept it going. I have never had to chase him and he carries the relationship well. I stopped dating when he had all my free time tied up and I was relaxed and happy. We began to make intelligent plans for our future. Well at about the year mark, he was spending most nights at my home and we were getting closer and closer. Marriage was on the table and he seemed excited about a solid 18 mont plan. I found that he was still talking to this women Friend from before and had in fact spent NYE with her. The text I read also indicated that he was telling her not to make plans for the two of them because he wont be around for that. Anyhow I was mad and told him to get all his stuff out of my house and to not come back anymore. (This is weeks after I expressed my discomfort with him keeping contact with his “friend”) He left but came back in about two weeks pledging his faithfulness and initiating the commitment conversation. He gave me a few reasons why this women was still in his life and how complicated it was. Blah… Blah… I let him know that he would need to sever his ties with her in order for me to feel comfortable with dating him only. We ended up getting a place together. I got laid off my job and I noticed there was still contact ( mostly her calling him ). I begin to unravel. My confidence went down the drain and I had too much time on my hands! I began making demands on him. Our communication broke down and our home was very tense. We had or biggest ugliest fight ever. He kept saying nothing was going on and that she wanted more but he was not intrested and why am I so insecure. What happens next is a confrontation with this women where she confirms that for the last 4 months he has tried to distance himself from her. They were friends with benefits and she thought it would turn into something more. Things changed with them in Jan. She did not require them to be together but still wanted him in her life so she did things for him like giving him money and using her job with the county to pull strings for his business. She told me that sex had stopped but he still saw her maybe once a week. She admitted to sending him naked pics the night before because she missed him and he had not returned her calls (this was the night of our big fight where he finally said he would not talk to this women any more. I knew then it was just out of frustration). She told me that in return he sent her pics of his body parts back, and agreed to take her to the airport the next night. I was outrage by his conduct although I could see a clear difference in our relationship that theirs. That day he told her he could not see her anymore and that he was wrong for letting this get out of hand and that he loved me and wanted to be with me. Blah… I kicked him out of our place two days later in a nasty non-siren fashion. This was a brake up. He felt that I gave up on him and kicked him out because he made a stupid mistake and that he had not touched that woman since he solidified our relationship. He said that he would not look back
    He came back a few days later and stayed with me for 4 nights, no sex. He was frustrated with the rejection and asked me what I wanted from him I gave him a “no friends w/ benefits good relationship commitment” speech. He said “ok” and left. For the next 2 weeks I did not contact him. He txt me a few times and called twice. I know he was dating during this time, and that he tried to have sex with another women. I was taking care of myself in other ways. Now a bit over a month later he is back he stays with me every night for 3 weeks we go on fantastic dates back to back and are enjoying each other physically and emotionally again. I am unsure what to do. I can forgive him but what is that saying about giving him permission? Can I transform this? I told him that I would not continue with him unless he could commit in a real way and he agreed but I feel as if I put myself all to willingly in the GF trap because the relationship is so wounded marriage is not on the table the way it once was. I still have resentment that I am trying to work out with him and myself. He says that he still wants a future with me. He also said that is I had done the something he would leave even if his heart wanted to stay. What does that mean I don’t know if I can trust him so I need some guidance on how to trust myself through this. I am not in denial about what happened and I do not want to be mistreated anymore. Is there hope for this kind of re commitment to work? I KNOW he loves me deeply but am unsure if he is capable of the commitment he professed. I believe he also feels bad for hurting me and thinks that it will never be the same. Can we heal this, is it worth it? Am I wasting my time? Do you think the thought of loosing me made him act right or is it all an ACT to keep me around?? In retrospect the first thing that comes to mind is… DON’T EVER STOP DATING NO MATER HOW FAB HE IS!!!!



  16.  #16Daria on June 19, 2010 at 9:06 pm

    Hope – what I would do in this case is CIRCULAR DATE. Of course, it seems the only thing missing…

    Circular Date until there’s a ring, engagement and wedding date, as you’ve said yourself.

    Dating will not only inspire this man to step up if he can, it will help you with the anxious feelings and pressure on him. He sounds into you… the only thing that feels bad to me is being exclusive before having what you want.



  17.  #17Daria on June 19, 2010 at 9:07 pm

    I would feel happy to take your own advice

    DON’t EVER STOP DATING NO MATTER HOW FAB HE IS!

    Commitment Blueprint is a great program Rori has on this kinda situation.



  18.  #18Danielle on March 24, 2011 at 1:18 pm

    I told my boyfriend to get out, I was stressed with all of the things he has done, he only care what he get’s he was suppose to get his grandfather’s car but after all his dad gave it to his other brother. He was stepped on like a rug and didn’t stick up for himself, I was hurt too and my boyfriend didn’t care, he only cares what he get’s and that is that after we were apart from each other we been dateing for 6 yrs I felt I couldn’t move on I been with him for so long, I took him back but thing’s are still the same way.
    Was that a mistake to take him back? I did miss him but things are back to the same way again.



  19.  #19Cindy on May 3, 2011 at 9:58 am

    Hi Rori, not sure if my situation is unique or not. I divorced and met up with an old male friend. Way back when we had been friends and had also had a sexual relationship. Well after about 4 months of him calling me every day we had sex again. Now when i asked him he said he didn’t want to date anyone. But I told him I was looking for more. I stopped being friends but have since picked the friendship back up. He calls me nearly ever day but still has never asked me out. Now I’m back to having sex with him and still trying to be his friend but i dont want to be just his buddy he has sex with I really care about this man and want to keep being friends but I question if that’s even possible for us after having an intimate relationship. How would you suggest me handling the situation with him?



  20.  #20Dori on June 9, 2012 at 4:32 am

    Rori,
    I met a very curious man. From June to October, he was romantic, verbal, excited etc..we went away for a week. During the vacation he got distant, quiet and seemed like a different person. Upon returning, he stopped holding hands, seeming excited and was distant. He only texted – everyone -and rarely liked to call. In December after seeming him buy a card that looked like one for a woman, I asked him if he might be feeling depressed due to this being his first holiday since his divorce. He reacted strongly, texting me “I don’t want to talk about it” and didn’t call me for 2 weeks. Later after the holidays, when he saw me on a dating site, he asked to see me and of course, we tried it again. Jan- June, now almost a year, we had highs and lows, one minute I was his soul mate, then another he was distant again. But, he texted me all day long, the content went from romantic to barely nice. One week from our 1 year, I broke it off saying I didn’t care for how he was treating me and he seemed to no longer care for me as he had.

    He wrote back that yes, his feelings were changing as he never got back after I accused him in December of buying the card for a woman!

    How can he go from loving and romantic to ice cold and then intermittently loving and not for another 6 months. We only had that one disagreement!

    I am so puzzled.



  21.  #21Rori Raye on June 9, 2012 at 9:07 am

    Dori – Welcome, and I’ve deleted your last name for your privacy….I’m so glad you did NOT stop dating other men during this time, you did SO the right thing ending it with him… The “why” isn’t important here – what’s important is if a man can’t TALK with you about things. I would encourage you to read everything you can here and at least get my ebook Have The Relationship You Want (click on the photo over in the sidebar) so YOU can learn how to communicate in the most open and effective way – making it possible for a man to open up to communicating with you, too. That said – communicating does NOT solve the problem of a man not being crazy about you enough to work through stuff – that’s just not in your power, and what serves us best is to ONLY date men who are unremittingly crazy about us. Love, Rori



  22.  #22Dimple on July 9, 2012 at 7:33 pm

    Hi Rori,

    Can I embed the videos on my site?



  23.  #23Rori Raye on July 9, 2012 at 9:01 pm

    Dimple – sorry, somehow you ended up in spam…and yes, you can go get them from youtube (I’d love it if you’d make a link back to this blog, tho!) Love, Rori



  24.  #24Dimple on July 17, 2012 at 2:18 am

    Hi Rori,

    Thanks! Sure. Will definitely link back to your site. 🙂
    By the way, I love your work. Keep going! Have a great day! 🙂 Dimple



  25.  #25Marisa on December 13, 2012 at 2:58 am

    Hi Rori
    Thank u so much for all your emails they keep me on the right track. Every time I veer off it I receive an email from you and I stop and get back on track 🙂
    One thing tho a week or two ago u sent an email re a video called. I can’t remember the whole title but it had reference to an Engagement ring it was about 55 minutes long. I wasn’t able to view it as I had to get to work and then it slipped my mind 🙁
    Now when I try to find the email it has vanished. Please post the link or send it to me
    Cheers
    Marisa x



  26.  #26Rori Raye on December 13, 2012 at 11:03 am

    Marisa, I don’t have any such long video – I’m wondering if this is “Girl Gets Ring” – and I have nothing to do with that. These new videos out there are SO long, and you can’t move around in them – I just turn them off after 20 seconds (and they are SO addicting!) Love, Rori