How To Bring In An Avoidant Man, Business Client, Or Situation – Video!

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A Comment:

From: Stephanie Cleveland:

“Rori, The thing that really helps me stay in feminine energy is not initiating contact. Rori, is it okay for me as a woman to say I don’t want a partner with a vagina?

These days dating feels very difficult for straight women who have a more old fashioned view of what constitutes a male…” Stephanie

My Answer:

Stephanie, this is Rori, and this is way too complex and tricky a question for me to answer simply… And that’s mostly because we’re all so ingrained in our judgment!

We judge men without really knowing them…

If they’re awkward, they may not be able to keyed into their masculine energy early on…

If we’re not making them feel safe, and because they can pick up our judgmental vibe, then they’re going to not be at their best….

I really really believe in giving men a chance. That’s what dating IS, far as I’m concerned…

Even very masculine energy men often have personality types that make them seem not very decisive…

That can be very frustrating for those of us with personalities where we’re very decisive… Like me!

And perhaps like you…

But that does not make them any less masculine in terms of actually caring for you and holding space for you in an emotional way… so…

For me, what I would look for if I were a woman in the dating pool and meeting what I consider feminine energy men, is to just date them and see if you can feel how your vibe is affecting them.

See if you can feel their discomfort and then really try straightforward questions like “I’ve really noticed that I feel myself leaning forward and trying to do stuff… You’re so much more laid-back than I am…”

That’s so much better word to use…

And see if you can start connecting with men, even if they are a little in what feels like Feminine Energy, and as you start to accept them more and make things safe for them – without necessarily marrying them!  – I believe you will open up the doors for them…and for yourself more…

Hope this was helpful.

Love, Rori.

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