How To Confidently Date A Dozen Men At The Same Time!

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Have you ever felt confused about how long to wait for a man to commit?

Have you ever felt frustrated with relationship timeline uncertainty?

Yes, this requires a whole NEW “Definition Of  ‘Dating'” – and here it is!

Natalina Love, Siren School Director for Siren Circle, makes it clear for you – so you’ll know what to do:

“As a coach, I hear a lot of women tell me that they wouldn’t dare, or at the very least they feel uneasy about seeing more than one man at the same time, and yet our mothers, grandmothers, great grandmothers, great great grandmothers and their mothers have been savvy in the art of entertaining the interests of many men.

So what makes it such a taboo for us to say yes to a coffee date with one man when another man tells us they want to see us again?

What is it that makes us jump into exclusivity?

The answer can be found in our definition of dating.

Dating is all about ‘level one’ getting to know you experiences. It’s getting to know men, and it’s getting to know yourself in the presence of men and the world.

Dating is where you get to explore without expectation and you can even have marriage be “on the table” yet still be 100% just dating.

The night before my husband got down on one knee, he was asking me all kinds of questions about how I saw marriage, family, and my personal goals. He ended that call by asking me out to a casual breakfast the next morning.

It was nice and I felt really happy, and yet, all of this, up until he proposed and I said yes, was still “just dating.”

Is it possible to know the exact moment your man gets serious about you?

From Rori: You really can get so much more confident about what’s going on with a man. You can learn how to actually experience the power of having influence over how he thinks and feels about you (way more influence than you think!) – and that’s what we’re here to do for you in the Siren Circle Private Coaching Program:

From the moment purchase Siren Circle Coaching, Natalina will reach out to you, and begin scheduling your private sessions and her 24/7 – 4 week-long Voxer/What’s App support and coaching with you. You’ll be getting 3 full-hour private  sessions over video Zoom with up to 3 different, brilliant Rori Raye coaches, along with your private coaching. Go here to get privately coached – ASAP – to solve your unique situation at the Siren  Circle incredibly low fee ->

“Let’s play with the idea that you could get inside a man’s mind and pull out the information you wanted:

How does that feel?

Imagine your man in front of you, as you look into his eyes – you are able to search and find whatever information you want.

“Will he call tonight?”
“Is he seeing another woman?”
“Does he really like me?”
“How can I get him to…?”
“Will we ever get married?”

While you are flipping through the search engine of his mind, I want you to notice your body.

Are your shoulders tight? Are you leaning forward? Is your breathe shallow?

As I sat here and typed, even though I could feel the tension all over my body, it was as if I was completely disconnected from it.

Okay, now let yourself focus on your body, your breath, unfolding the tension in your neck, back, shoulders, arms, eyes, wrists… put the attention back on yourself.

What if you could cut out all the anxiety of not knowing where your relationship was going?

Imagine what it would be like if you didn’t need to know what a man was thinking in order to have and enjoy the relationship you intend to have.

Courtship is what I consider to be “serious dating” where both parties have have both personally determined their own life and relationship goals and have shared their long term intentions of the relationship they intend to have.

If your relationship is a courtship you will have discussed exclusivity with one another, but more specifically you will also be on the same page about how soon marriage, children, and other family planning needs will be met and addressed.

In my book, courtship generally means that you already have the ring on your hand, literally, a golden date to share and celebrate how you wish in your datebook, along with a reason to have a few significant conversations with your loved ones.

Courtship is the preface to merging two families, and it is not intended to be a mystery. If you don’t know where your man is, he was just a date.

Ideally, you won’t ever stop dating.

Once you’ve found true love and the commitment you want, your definition of dating will just evolve, as most everything in life does, it should.

Dating, in all of it’s forms is a tool to help you keep your energy fresh and your vibe centered in your femininity.

Courtship is about the commitment and recommitment you make to the relationship you want.

You can be courting yourself, and let your “boy-energy” champion your relationship intentions by practicing your feeling messages, learning to share your heart and mind,

When you feel the tension and anxiety raise concerns in your mind and heart, I want you to go back to your personal definition and intention for dating.

Dating is a tool to help us circulate energy. It can be as simple as a moment in the checkout line at the grocery, or as long and detailed as you like for it to be, and when it’s no longer fun, you’ll have another piece of information to grow with.

Love, Natalina

From Rori:  This is what Modern Siren is all about: Using the “old convention” of “Dating” to help you feel good – which then gets you what you want!

It’s about using “dating” to lift your spirits, to get “emotionally fed” by ALL men out in the world, without stress and weirdness, so that men who are GOOD for YOU will not only flock to you, but treat you brilliantly – the way you’ve taught yourself and everyone around you to treat you!

It’s about learning how you, uniquely, are operating in the world right now in ways that aren’t working for you. Ways you’ve been taught since childhood that NEVER worked…

…And then – finding YOUR “antidote”!

You can do this – you’ll be amazed how quickly you’ll “get” how “LeaningBack” and “Doing Nothing” actually FEEL, by learning how to do them and practicing doing them right in the safe space of your private Siren Circle coaching sessions. Then, when you take what you’ve learned out into the world, into your every day life – things begin to change without feeling super scary. They just get better.

Love, Rori

 

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