How You Can Learn The Rori Raye Method Of Coaching And Be A Successful, Original, Fulfilled Coach

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Hi, this is Rori Raye, and if you can feel – in a moment, or a collection of moments, days and even years – the hum of a “healer” inside yourself, write to me from any contact form on CoachRori (there’s one at the bottom of this post!) to talk with Rori Raye Method™/RRCT Director, Master Coach Teacher, and superstar coach Naomie Thompson about how we can help make that happen – for real – for you.

And if you’re already a therapist, a coach, a healer using any therapeutic modalities in addition to your own moxie and ingenuity – and you want to help your clients move from distress in their love and work lives to happiness and a committed romantic relationship (and do it in a completely new, theatrical and artistic way)…

Perhaps The Rori Raye Method™ Might Be The New Answer You’re Looking For…

On Sunday, at the “How To Be A Successful Feminine Energy Coach” Live Mini-Workshop”, we’ll be combining sharing how The Rori Raye Method™/RRCT Coach Training works, and working with you to help you stay in your Feminine Energy at whatever “work” you do!

To be a successful coach means staying in your “feeling and intuitive state of being”, and the huge amount of “tech” and daily onslaught of promotional and business structure needs can get old fast if you’re in your masculine energy.

Everyone out there pushing “success” at you “…if you only do ‘this’…” can be overwhelming, and make you want to literally stop and just go sit in a corner.

To get to the Mini-Workshop, live! – (and download your “Fall In Love With Chaos” worksheet!) – go here:

Yes, I’m a coach, not a licensed therapist.

And though it might then seem that I should be talking about “coaching methods” – I’m actually talking about a new, completely original (if there is any such thing) therapeutic method.

A method that requires your flair for theatricality, drama, and a desire to be transparent and seen as a peer to your clients, rather than as a superior.

This is an end to transference as you may have been trained – and yet, The Rori Raye Method isn’t at all about “strategy.”

In fact, we pretty much ignore any kind of lecture, advice-giving or information disseminating.

In the 11 years of training “coaches” in The Rori Raye Method™/RRCT, Rori Raye Coach Training, I’ve discovered that therapists have the hardest time learning The Rori Raye Method™, and actresses have the easiest.

Why? Because most psychological training is heavy on the “why.”

It’s focused on intervention for crises situations, rescue from nervous system breakdowns, depression and anxiety syndromes, and uncovering deep trauma formations.

And yet, most everyone out there has some – or ALL of these to some degree!

We ALL have PTSD.

And, ALL women have suffered and endured, as we’re finally seeing coming forward in the news, intense mistreatment, misjudgment, unfairness, and a holy hell of sexual conflict based on everything from religion to men’s power moves over the whole of civilization, combined with our own natural, God-given sexual desires.

Add that to my Modern Siren philosophy that the origin of the cosmos is Feminine.

That Chaos itself, the beginning, is feminine in its emotional bursting forth and expanding – and that what you see in front of you in a client session is a hugely powerful being who has no idea what she’s capable of.

You see a woman who only sees what she’s been taught and allowed to think, feel, do and want.

Psychology is, historically, in my opinion, a masculine field of science. It is about the mind.

New psychological techniques focused on the emotions and “getting it out” – from Reichian Therapy (and “Rebirthing,” a new-age update of which I was once a practitioner), The Journey, numerous plate-breaking, screaming in padded cells, battaca-swinging ideas that are now often debunked and proved ineffective, to newer “cognitive” methods that rely on creating new behaviors, to “affirmations,” to Mindfulness and more Eastern meditative techniques…all work for some people.

And then there’ve been the relationship experts: Harville Hendrix, John Gottman, and tons of exceptional books (Trusting You Are Loved” by Lew Epstein is one of my favorites).

There are a few lone women in that pantheon, culminating with the great Pat Allen, who speaks of the dynamic between men and women, between masculine and feminine “energy.”

And still – the “HOW” has never been fully addressed in a way anyone can understand.

The Raye Method™ is the “therapeutic” HOW – and it uses the Tools and Techniques of my Modern Siren programs.

The body of work you’ll have available as an RRCT graduate is larger, covers more ground, and is wholly specific in instructions for the woman working with them than any other modality I’ve ever come across.

In books alone, there’s Have The Relationship You Want, Surrender To Love, Navigating Love, Make Him Fall For You plus the entirely of the RRCT Manual, plus hundreds of hours of video demonstrations.

If I were to put The Raye Method into sound bytes, it would be: “Cinematic Therapy”: using imagination, role-playing, psychodrama juggling, and the client’s subconscious to create fast and lasting change.

The Modern Siren Tools From My Programs Work All Together as a Method…

You may have experienced how they can work for you in your own life, and begun sharing them with friends, and even in your work if you’re already a healing professional.

A woman can use the Tools in my video programs – all on her own – to create change in her life and love life.

And – The only thing missing was someone to stand with her in her real life and help her USE the Tools and self-coaching in my programs. There was only me.

Here’s where it became so obvious that I needed to create many more coaches working with the Modern Siren Tools – with my blessings and total support – because the Modern Siren Tools are completely counter-intuitive. They go against what every woman has been taught since birth.

* Telling a person what they could do to feel better, make better choices, and get better results…all that has minimal effectiveness.

* Marriage counseling has a huge failure rate, hardly any couple actually goes through it “together.”

* Sex therapy has its place, but is based on dynamics that are all from an inner world most therapies can’t break into.

When you talk with people who’ve succeeded in real change, they’re often in a 12-step program, or someone impacted them powerfully and personally, with something they said or did. And that stuck.

People change old behaviors when they finally learn a new behavior that works better.

And Feeling better is not necessarily the thing that “works better.”

When self-punishment, or getting punished by others is, in fact, the coveted subconscious reward, all the delving in the world can’t scratch the surface.

So, how can you – a coach trained in The Rori Raye Method™ from scratch in only 22 weeks – create change in a client in her first month of coaching?

Because, in addition to using the Modern Siren Tools to help women, I’d developed a completely new, exciting, and incredibly effective method of coaching.

The Raye Method™ is completely different from anything out there now, or anything I’d ever studied or heard about anywhere, anytime.

And I’d tried every method of therapy I’d ever heard about – from sobbing in swimming pools, naked, being “rebirthed,” to Reichian, Rogerian, Gestault, new movements that showed up every year, including EST and all that came after – along with Freudian work, basic talk-therapy, cognitive therapy, somatic body therapies – you name it, I tried it.

And it wasn’t because I was so unhappy or horribly non-functioning.  I simply wanted to stop feeling like a “pretend person.”

I wanted to feel “real.” To speak truth. To be vulnerable.

I had a silver-plated, heavy-gauge armor over my heart and body – and nothing, no love at all, was getting through. I wanted to be married. I wanted a family.  I wanted the “white picket fence.”

And I also wanted some romance, thrills, juice and fun. But I would’ve settled for just a “relationship.”

The Rori Raye Method™ of coaching not only respects and borrows from every therapy I know of that’s gone before – it adds completely new elements: Theatricality; artistic inventiveness and intuition; dramatic “scene-creation;” a visceral experience for your client; a quick line into your client’s subconscious so you can drop down and away from “talk;” complete non-judgment; bold truth-telling, fun (yes!); utter, radical self-acceptance;  sudden vulnerability; “Scripting From Feelings;” and the awesome experience of “Falling In Love With It” – no matter what “it” is.

The Rori Raye Method draws from so many:

Shirley Luthman, Shakti Gawain, Merle Shain, Thich Nhat Hahn, Elizabeth Vermilyea, Peter Levine…anything I’ve ever read (and experienced in my own journey through psychotherapy over 30 years) – just as you have in your own Training.

And, it draws mostly from my training as an actor, along with my years as a live stage director, often working with teenagers.

I guessed that if a coach/therapist was able to interact with a client in the way an improv actor interacts with another improv actor – a lot more would come up from the subconscious than would show up in a “talk” session – or even a “battaca-bashing” session, EFT, or nearly anything else I’ve tried myself.

In my days as an actress in a psychodrama troupe (one of the most fabulous experiences of my life), I saw it happen.

I saw unprepared audience members come up to the stage.

Suddenly, they were surrounded by us – by actors playing out every voice in their head, every influential person who’d ever passed through their minds.

We showed up for them on stage as those voices and people who’d influenced their lives – and interacted with them in a way that was so immediate, so powerful, that real change occurred – right then and there.

The therapist leading the troop was amazing. He could sense exactly what the audience member (now our “client”) needed right at every moment, and we, as a troupe, were so well trained and rehearsed that any one of us could play mothers, fathers, lovers, children, bosses…anyone….

I was there, on stage, playing one of the many people who were, in the “client’s mind, holding them back from happiness and the life and love they wanted.

The on stage experience was so visceral, so immediate and so powerful, real change occurred. Right then.

We could see it happening, and we knew it stuck, because the “clients” were followed up on carefully.

They’d came to the theater looking for fun, and then their jaws dropped.

Most important, their hearts opened.

They had an experience.

We played in theaters throughout Los Angeles as “Psychodrama Theater,” but we were more than “entertainment.”

We also made appearances at huge college lecture halls – performing, teaching, sparking intense conversations, and changing the career direction for many newly graduated therapists.

Psychodrama has always been a heavy-weight, powerful therapeutic method – and it’s always been a technique that’s seemed difficult for one, solo therapist to create.

It requires a “flair” for the dramatic, and enough confidence and solid training to help you be bold instead of “staying in the safe lane.”

It’s an art as much as a science – and yet, it works perfectly for the new, limitless era of COACHING.  To be the leader of a “psychodrama troupe” takes a gift, an ability, an “in-tune-ness” – and that would be you!

You, using the Rori Raye Method™, become the entire “troupe.”

Write back to me by hitting “reply” to this letter, or go to https://www.coachrori.com/be-a-rori-raye-relationship-coach/ to learn more and contact me through a form, and we’ll set up a video meeting with you where we can see if the Rori Raye Method™ is right for you.

It can be exhausting to be a coach and “give advice” day in and day out.

That’s why the Rori Raye Method™ is so unique. It’s never-endingly creative, motivating, and gets fast results.

You won’t be “giving advice” continually.

Instead, you’ll literally be creating a “movie” starring your client as the heroine – where YOU are the writer, director, cinematographer, and all the other actors.

Here, YOU get to decide in which direction the movie goes at every moment, taking your client to new places, new experiences, new ways of “being,” new ways of expressing herself in words and actions, and to becoming a newly transformed, appealing, happy heroine. The star of her own movie.

We’re used to considering “life-changing experiences” as near-death experiences, catastrophic events that change our perceptions of life.

We’re used to considering “hitting rock bottom” as a motivator, and that “following your dreams” is a very hard thing for our conflicted “egos” to get around.

The Rori Raye Method™ literally bypasses all of those old contentions (no matter how “scientific-sounding”) – while “catching” all the “Spiritual Bypasses” and other “ignoring” tactics we’ve been taught to do.

As women – this “excusing and ignoring” has been a part of our lives since day one.

The Rori Raye Method™ has to be demonstrated – in fact, you have to participate in the demonstration! – for you to “get” how it works.

We have to meet, and we have to be able to see each other over Zoom.

If you like adding new modalities to your practice, and you’ve read and watched enough of my “Modern Siren” work and would like to get as great and fast results with your female clients as the coaches I’ve trained do – let me know, schedule a session with me, and we’ll talk face-to-face together.

I can give you these visuals: Imagine having an experiential place to go with your client, while keeping her “in a scene” with her husband, boyfriend, date, or a man she’d like to meet. Imagine her having an experience with the chords that are binding her body and heart up tight, with whatever might be blocking her ease in receiving love, whatever makes her so angry.

Imagine you literally “putting new words in her mouth” so that the words she speaks begin to say the truth of what she feels, instead of the old behaviors and tricks of what she “thinks.”

Imagine seeing your client becoming more and more “present” and confident just by placing her in triggering situations and having the skills and fortitude to take her through the triggers in a new way – in words, body language, thoughts and feelings.

Imagine seeing your client expanding outward instead of closing up – automatically.

Imagine “vulnerability” become a lovely word instead of something terrifying.

Imagine your client actually feeling what “soft” means instead of trying to understand it, and being able to create that sensation at will.

Imagine not having to give advice or strategize, or hold back your own instincts.

Imagine not having to “hold together” – and instead just get comfortable one step ahead of your client because you’ve been trained.

Imagine truly ending all “judgment” of your own, and allowing your client to live, when she’s with you, in a world of total acceptance and appreciation.

The Rori Raye Method combines developing a Philosophy of existence (yes), with Tools to quickly, on call, create new responses to old cues on every level of body, mind, emotion, spirit.

It’s NOT a theory.

We all know what’s “underneath.”

*You’ve been trained to know that your client is angry even though she’s smiling.

*You’ve been trained to know that she’s terrified when she lashes out.

*You know she’s lost when she seems sure of herself.

*And yet, the turning around of that has been the “how-to” of therapy from the beginning.

If you’re already a healer, and are interested in something new, highly theatrical, dramatic, fun, endearing and incredibly effective for your female clients, talk with me and see if The Rori Raye Method is for you.

If you’ve been in another career entirely – business, corporate, or homemaking and child-raising – perhaps now is your chance to really spread your wings.

The Rori Raye Method™/RRCT 2023 Summer/Fall begins soon, with early enrollment beginning now and the “10 students maximum” we’ve always adhered to. From the moment you enroll, you’ll be in contact with me personally, and I truly look forward to talking with you and getting to know you.

If you’d like to set up a private session with Naomie Thompson, The Rori Raye Method™/RRCT Director, just hit “reply” to this letter, or write to me at Rori@CoachRori.com, and we’ll get right back to you to schedule.

And if you’d like to meet us all, and talk with us in the big-group “Successful Feminine Energy Coach” mini-workshop on Sunday, go here: 

Love, Rori

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