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Love, Rori

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  1.  #1Lisa on January 19, 2010 at 8:47 pm

    I just thought of a great Joan Armatrading song today, “Love and Affection”. It’s a hopeful song about the potential for love. She’s a West Indian songwriter, and if you don;t know her, you should check her out:

    “Thank you
    You took me dancing
    ‘Cross the floor
    Cheek to cheek
    But with a lover
    I could really move
    Really move
    I could really dance
    Really dance”

  2.  #2Daria on January 19, 2010 at 9:52 pm

    I like this other reggae song “love and affection,” by a guy

    Lemme give you some luv an affection
    you got my attention
    you need no correction

    mmmmm i feel chills

  3.  #3Daria on January 19, 2010 at 10:28 pm


    here is some Rori advice on the Questions thread to TOUCH A MAN.

    thats right! many a time I HELD BACK from touching because i was afraid i would lean forward. but now i FEEL the energy. (yay)

    so i feel good to see Rori advising to touch (I thiink i’ve heard her say this only once or twice before)

    Rori will you please Express more on touch? when is appropriate? when is it Goddessy and when is it lean forward… etc?

    how to use it?

    Rapunzel, would you tell me – how have you talked about this with him – in the past and now? What does he say? What do you think is going on? Have you asked him about his anger? It just seems to me there are so many stuck feelings here…I would definitely try leaning back – and touching him. Brush his shoulder, smile at him, praise him, share with him the physical and emotional qualities of how you miss the marriage. Come down from your tower. Your own anger is keeping you shut up in there. This will not be easy, letting the garbage underneath come out…and it may not even be worth it, but you might want to try writing a few speeches around it and see what happens. It certainly can’t get any worse. Love, Rori

  4.  #4Daria on January 20, 2010 at 12:14 am

    Here it is – Love and Affection by pressure:


    I feel a lil uncomfy and guilty like im hijaking your idea Lisa.


    I don’t want to feel this way!

    i love my feelings!

  5.  #5Tina on January 20, 2010 at 12:15 am

    I ran in to “warm and fuzzy” at the grocery store last night, I was checking out and he was a few people behind me. I gave him a big smile and waved after he said hi. We held up the line for a few minutes, him asking me if I was coming to his birthday party, I said I’ll try and make it but I have an appointment to get my hair trimmed so I wasnt sure then I walked off with my stuff.

    I met a man last winter at a dance, we danced, we chatted. He then asked me for my number and I was about to give it him, when he walked off leaving me hanging there, to talk to a woman. My friend asked me if I was ready to leave, I said yes, I said hurry , let’s go, he is talking to another woman, when he asked for my number and left me here to wait, I want to go now, we literally ran out lol, we laughed on our way. I can imagine the look on his face when he turned around and I wasnt there. I ran in to him again last week when “truckman” took me to another hockey game, hehe. I noticed him standing there talking to his buddies, I said oh theres that guy – in my head. I smiled to myself, he looked over and noticed me walking away, his eyes bugged out haha. yeah buddy, leave me standing there again. This is what happens when you take your eyes off the prize lol.

  6.  #6Daria on January 20, 2010 at 12:17 am

    HAHA Tina I love you

  7.  #7Tina on January 20, 2010 at 12:25 am

    I have a feeling I will run in to him again “phone number man” he is also on the skidoo trails hehe and probibly will see him again at the hockey game this weekend. I noticed to that “truckman” is staring down men who are checking me out. Hockey games are boring ,but I entertain myself, with Rori Raye tools hehe.

  8.  #8Tina on January 20, 2010 at 12:37 am

    Daria, I love you toooooooo! The same dance is happening this year, next month 🙂 I made out with “phone number man” at last years dance.

  9.  #9alias girl on January 20, 2010 at 12:53 am

    taking eye off the prize. hahaha

    today i was in this office building talking to the male concierge (about the restroom key) and he said, “i love the way you are looking at me.”


    i felt flattered but also flustered because i was just sort of going about my business and wasn’t even flirting. i mean i didn’t even find him attractive. well, i did a little after he said that. totally threw me offguard though. i said, no one has ever said that to me before.

    he said, i’ve never said that to anyone before.

    i felt totally flustered.

  10.  #10alias girl on January 20, 2010 at 12:54 am

    the island environment is shifting before my eyes. 🙂

  11.  #11Tina on January 20, 2010 at 1:30 am

    oh la la

  12.  #12Tina on January 20, 2010 at 1:47 am

    I always felt outwardly flirting strange to me. Strange and alien to me, I feel lean forwardy. Alias girl, I love that a man would think that you are looking at him in some “special way” when you werent 🙂

  13.  #13Lisa on January 20, 2010 at 9:13 am


    I think it’s good to expand upon ideas 🙂

  14.  #14Rori Raye on January 20, 2010 at 9:58 am

    I wrote a piece about the touching – I think I called the Tool the “Brush By” — I’ll look for it. Basically – for me, I’m very aware when I feel a NEED to reach out and touch my man – and then it always feels awful. It’s because HE’S passing through, or focused on something else – and I’m not paying attention and noticing that he’s not focused on me, and I’m feeling weird for a second and want to make contact. If, however, he strikes me as adorable, and I feel a sense of calm and peace and stillness, and I look at him and touch him (perhaps stick my hand under his butt when we’re driving or sitting on the couch) – it feels lovely to us both. The key is the vibe…so until we have that knocked, all touching feels like leaning forward. Again – this is about experimenting, and what Circular Dating can teach you. (I know this is not really an answer or Tool – but I’ll write more…) Love, Rori

  15.  #15Robin on January 20, 2010 at 11:31 am

    Oh AG, I LOVE that!!! 🙂 The energy feels so good just hearing that, totally awesome!

  16.  #16Robin on January 20, 2010 at 11:31 am


  17.  #17Lisa on January 20, 2010 at 3:10 pm

    I posted a pix on the gravatar site, but it doesn’t appear 🙁

  18.  #18Truden on January 21, 2010 at 3:59 am

    Hi, Thanks for article. Everytime like to read you.
    Thank you

  19.  #19Symantha on January 24, 2010 at 9:32 am


    just testing if my gravatar works

  20.  #20Mia on January 31, 2010 at 1:12 am

    Do you have a program for me? I’ve been w/my other half for 13 years and we have 6 children. He has made comments over the years like, he’s using me for breeding or he doesn’t like me to wear make up because I’ll look like a clown. He wants more kids but I don’t. He wants to try to have more boys since we only had one. I am done! The thing is is that, since we’re not married, these comments make me wonder if he is really only using me for his childrens’ mom. He is constantly accusing me of wanting other men or cheating, which I’ve never done. He also constantly tells me about all the women who throw themselves at him throughout the week. What’s his deal? Still can’t figure out what he really means after all these years and it’s starting to get old. He tells me he loves me or he wouldn’t be w/me, but, I don’t think he likes to take me out in public. He runs off to a different part of the store when we shop, and always acts like he’s ignoring me when we go somewhere (he doesn’t look at me when I am talking or keeps hands in pockets etc…). It never really bothered me before, I would just blow it off, but, lately, it’s been irritating me. He seems to go out w/his brother and his brother’s wife a lot, always leaving me home. His background: Both parents have had multiple marriages, one reason for his lack of interest in marriage. My background, watched my parents fight too much so never wanted to be married! Well, I am getting old too (35) so need some advice. Can’t afford all of your programs so if you have one inparticular, let me know!
    I do enjoy reading your emails!

  21.  #21Mia on January 31, 2010 at 1:29 am

    p.s. Rori,
    I just wanted to add…just to give you an idea, after 6 kids, I am in pretty good shape, weighing about 115 and pretty toned(all the cleaning and running around I do! ha ha), and sex is very good, but still, thinking he is still looking for greener grass..

  22.  #22Rori Raye on January 31, 2010 at 9:37 pm

    Mia – Welcome, and first get the ebook – that will help you tremendously – the essential Tools are there…then go with Modern Siren – what’s needed here is a much warmer connection between you – with you opening up more emotionally – I believe that’ll do it for you…Love, Rori