Last Chance – Siren Mom Live Teleclass Tomorrow

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10-6 love yourselfHi Sirens,

Today is the last day you can sign up to ask me specific questions about love and relationships in my live teleclass “Dating Secrets For The Siren Mom” – and thank you SO much for your help and input addressing one of the key, crucial issues.

I’ll be focusing on the specific logistical, emotional and psychological high-stakes challenges of dating and relationships when you have kids.

If you join me on Wednesday, you’ll learn:

  • How to heal your anger, frustration and hurt from past relationships using my “Two Trains” Tool
  • The best way to manage your time that reduces stress and makes you feel like you’ve “Got all the time in the world…”
  • How to create your “New Love Story” with my new Circular Dating Tool: Stir The Pot
  • Easy ways to create the family environment that invites the right man IN, instead of pushing him away
  • How to stop the Mom “Quicksand of Overfunctioning” with your kids so you’ll never again overfunction with a man

Yes! Sign Me Up!

I truly hope you’ll join me on June 25th at either 11am or 5:30 pm PST (you can choose which call once you sign up), and learn how to reconnect to your irresistible, feminine, magnetic self again.

It’s time you took care of yourself the way you take care of others, and get the loving, connected, romantic relationship you deserve.

Love, Rori

Note: Remember, if you come to the teleclass, you’ll get a discount to the full audio program once it’s completed this fall. 

Yes! Sign Me Up!

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  1.  #1Tereana on June 24, 2014 at 7:09 pm

    Hi! I have nothing to post! I just wanted to break the ice 🙂

  2.  #2Femininewoman on June 25, 2014 at 5:49 am

    Hi Tereana

  3.  #3Kyla on June 25, 2014 at 8:31 am

    I felt bratty and self absorbed last night. I was feeling tired and grumpy after working late, stuffy and muddled from a head cold. Ninja had dinner and flowers waiting for me and was making paper airplanes with son when I came home and while part of me acknowkedged how lovely that was I was feeling awful. I stomped around the place, grumbled at everyone and sulked when he wanted to sit down and look at our budget that he had spent the evening preparing. I felt overwhelmed trying to communicate coherently and raised my voice. He suddly got very quiet and sternly said ‘don’t shout at me’ and I flew out of the room in frustration to run a bath but also feeling relieved that he wasn’t letting me push him, it made me feel secure. When I came back down he calmly asked if I was ready and able to finish the job and I just sank into the seat beside him, lay my head on his shoulder and asked for a hug. A few silent minutes later I sat up and helped him finish our plans and put the kids to bed while he set up a movie for us to watch. The rest of the evening was really peaceful and intimate.

    I feel really safe and happy having his strength to lean on and could feel him all day patiently holding space for me, not withdrawing or letting me walk on him. It feels good even though my behaviour was far from graceful, the energy between us was still balanced the way that feels best to me. I have so much respect for his strength, it makes me feel stronger too, there’s no anxiety. I feel trusting even when I’m feeling furious!

  4.  #4Azure Blu on June 25, 2014 at 10:44 am

    I feel in awe reading how all this is working for Your family and Ninjas family combining…
    When he asked you not to shout at him i felt his strength
    My thought was
    Your NOT having to outgirl him…
    that felt so balanced to read!!

    Lovely Siren… thank you for taking the time
    to share how a relationship progresses day to day
    using the RR tools!!!

  5.  #5Kyla on June 25, 2014 at 1:15 pm

    Thanks Azure Blu I always feel so glowy reading your posts 🙂

    I’m feeling pretty glowy in general today, second last day and resolved 2 huge files. Soon to be ex boss even came in to my office today to say congrats on the excellent outcome in both of them and that our clients will surely be pleased with the results I got! I felt so happy to hear his praise even if its as I walk out the door.

    We got our house in Vancouver too so now we have a place to live when we arrive, yay! And more people have offered to recommend me for jobs, including a judge (!) that I met at a meeting, he called to say he’d heard from a mutual friend that I was moving and would like to put my name forward for a position that has just opened. I feel high as a kite. I didn’t even know we had a mutual friend 😀

  6.  #6Zia on June 25, 2014 at 3:58 pm

    Ohhhhh boy am I so intensely TRIGGERED by an email from my ex! (this is about three ex’s ago, been broken up 5 years now). His attitude is so self involved and smarmy and SUPERIOR. I had contacted him as I needed one piece of information to finalise everything for my tax this year (we only just finally transferred the house out of both our names into his). And his response was just so full of attitude, that as soon as I read it my entire body just went into melt down – I felt shaky, I felt furious, I still feel tense and shaky and insulted, and angry… all from one email. I feel disgust, and anger and fury towards him. I feel relieved that once this is all done I will have ZERO reason to be in touch with him ever again.

  7.  #7Phoenix on June 25, 2014 at 7:22 pm

    Thank you so much Rori! That was a great teleseminar! <3

  8.  #8prplpsn28 on June 25, 2014 at 7:39 pm

    I’ve been keeping up with the blog but don’t have much to post myself. Nothing new really. H and I are still together. Reading everyone’s posts is very helpful 🙂

    I know this is not related to the post in any way but…how do you change your picture that is attached to your posts on here. I believe it was FW who sent me a link a while back but it didn’t work. Any help would be greatly appreciated. 🙂

  9.  #9Tereana on June 25, 2014 at 8:27 pm

    Hi FW 🙂

    Prplpsn – it’s something about gravitar. I haven’t done it, but you make a profile through gravitar, and somehow it connects when you use the same email. Maybe try googling it?

  10.  #10Tereana on June 25, 2014 at 8:29 pm

    Zia – oy, I know how you feel. Well, generally I do. I’ve felt that was just from reading an email before. Yick.


  11.  #11prplpsn28 on June 25, 2014 at 10:58 pm

    Thank you Tereana. I will check it out.

  12.  #12Zia on June 26, 2014 at 6:12 am

    After the email encounter this morning, I randomly sent my current bf a fb message this morning just telling him how grateful I am that he’s in my life and how amazing he is and how much I love him.

    Then because of my mindset today, and the fact I’ve had really bad emotional PMS this month, I started worrying about whether it was too much, or too needy. When he came over tonight he told me how much he loved receiving that message and how he read over it so many times today and how happy it made him feel.


  13.  #13Azure Blu on June 26, 2014 at 6:53 am

    Mmmmmm…. simply Lovely!!
    I feel sunshiny and rainbows!!!…

    sharing Your vulnerability was cherished and appreciated!!!

  14.  #14Veronica on June 26, 2014 at 8:12 am

    Zia – 12 – wow and that felt like a breath into softness when he cherished your love message. I’m happy this happened for you.

  15.  #15Veronica on June 26, 2014 at 8:14 am

    I feel panic at the idea of sharing my love and it not being received. It happened so many times with BM. I know this is going to be an issue for me in the next relationship. Hurtburn wound.

  16.  #16Kyla on June 26, 2014 at 8:50 am

    Veronica practice being open and loving with everyone. Start with people already in your life and expand it outwards. The fear of love not being returned is painful but it can be reframed. Gently, slowly shift from ‘giving’ love to ‘being’ love 🙂

    With CDs you are not looking for someone to give your heart to. Your heart is always loving. You are leaned back – a beautiful, warm, open, deep, feeling woman who triggers his love by the nature of your very being and invites him to give his love to you! You receive his love and it radiates out from inside of you. He wants to give you more love and make you glow even brighter!

  17.  #17Azure Blu on June 26, 2014 at 9:05 am

    Mmmmm… juicy, yummy words…
    I’m gently… slowly shifting everyday…

  18.  #18Labbit on June 26, 2014 at 11:48 am

    Zia 12 — Beautiful. I think every man wants to know he is needed and it sounds like your man is good at expressing himself too. Sexy!!

    Kyla 16 — ohhh, this is a terrific explanation! Taking mental notes…

  19.  #19Tereana on June 26, 2014 at 8:07 pm

    Zia – what a great experience! As awful as your email exchange was with your ex, it seems like it really brought into focus for you how you feel about your current bf. what you expressed wasn’t needy, it was authentic and true and real, and that’s why he was able to really hear it. And kudos to him for being the kind of man who could receive and appreciate it. Men need to be able to receive love, too. It not only for women, and it takes a lot of maturity for a man to do that.

    Your ex can…well, fill in the blank. I think you’ve found a keeper!! : )

  20.  #20Veronica on June 26, 2014 at 11:26 pm

    Kyla – 16 – I can’t give my heart to anyone – I can’t go there anymore. This pain seems difficult for me to feel through. I love what you wrote. I need that shift to being love.

    Oh my, the way you describe CDing is inspiring, I can actually imagine a man being in awe of a woman like that – how that looks and how that feels. Thank you xx! Copied and pasted.

  21.  #21Al-Yasha on August 5, 2014 at 4:18 pm

    Hi Rori,

    sometime ago I purchased your video series “Have the Relationship You Want”. The great thing is that it helped me get out of a toxic relationship – I was together with a man who had an 8 year relationship with a 14 year old during our marriage.

    I’m now divorced and am in love with a wonderful man who wants to marry me. Of course, as in every relationship there are issues- the primary one for us being that I feel ignored when we are around other people, especially around an ex-girl friend with whom he works. The three of us are musicians and often work at the same venue. They have had a relationship that lasted several years and since they are still working together they are very close.

    In the beginning of our relationship he was very attentive and we saw each other everyday for about 5 weeks. Things are slowly changing since we’re talking about marriage. Suddenly his ex is aggressively coming on to him. He’s blocking her in a way that gives mixed signals, which makes me feel insecure. When I try to talk about it he gets angry and says I have no reason to be insecure because he loves me. However, he started spending much less time with me and calls me as little as twice a week- no inkling of what he’s doing in between.

    I’ve listened intently to your video and I’m taking it with as much understanding and charm as I can. I’m giving him his space and am very busy with my own life which helps a little but not as much as I expected.

    I started circular dating again- occasionally when he calls me I let him know that I’ve been invited out by another gentleman and am looking forward to a friendly and casual evening. At first he was alright with it but shortly thereafter cut off all communication.

    When I finally reached him he was very cold and said dating other men, even without sexual contact is a sign that I’m looking for someone else and he’s not going to sit around and be just an option for me. I had to work very hard to bring the relationship back to a trustful stance. It completely through him- and me off.

    I love him so much but my feelings of fear and insecurity have resurfaced. When I ask him to show me some love- like kissing or hugging- he’s dramatically opposed if his ex is around. She makes every effort to handle him physically in front of me even though he clearly keeps pushing her away. Am I being stupid trusting him or is he hiding a deeper involvement with her?

  22.  #22Rori Raye on August 5, 2014 at 6:33 pm

    Al-Yasha – this is complex…first order of business is your insecurity, etc, and “asking” him for affection…will NOT work…I’m not sure which video series you have (the book is called Have The Relationship You Want, the video programs have other titles) – AND I recommend you get Modern Siren AND that you get some private coaching (Directory of Coaches is over in the sidebar on the right…). It will get you on track to re-attracting him quickly – and then you can make a decision about him. I personally wouldn’t want anything to do with a man in this situation…AND – I would still suggest you practice the Tools with him – especially Feeling Messages and body language…Love, Rori

  23.  #23Amber J Gardner on August 5, 2014 at 9:15 pm

    Hello, Rori!

    I saw you comment here recently, and I wanted to talk to you directly (I didn’t know if I would if I used the contact page would do that since it’s not really a question).

    Just wanted to let you in on this great insight.

    I bought you book and then signed up for the Modern Siren. I’m working with Section 4.

    And what has struck me IMMENSELY is that…this information…is like…GREAT not just for getting a guy. In fact, I often forget that I’m doing all of this to get a guy.

    Usually when I’m working particularly on the tools, I don’t even think about him! It’s so funny. And honestly, that alone is worth the course. I signed up for a cure of my obsessing over a guy (which drove me nuts). I thought the solution was to just find a guy who would be into me. Apparently the solution was to figure out not to worry at all about it. And you’ve delivered! Thank you!

    So far the guy hasn’t come around, but I don’t care.

    What’s more important and what I wanted to tell you is that this work is applicable to anything.

    I’ve been actually using it for my money situation. Using the tools to get my mind off “money” as if “money” is the guy. And it works! I mean, it’s still too early to tell if I’ll actually attract anything, but the fear and the obsessiveness and just the anxiety has lifted. I feel light and free, and it’s just sooo great.

    And it’s also helped me with my acting! I’m learning to be more present and less in my mind when delivering monologues. Your tools are miracles!

    Of all the self-help courses I’ve done, I never imaged that one about love/relationships would help me make the next step for the other areas in my life 🙂

  24.  #24Sarah on August 7, 2014 at 8:27 am

    I have read some of your articles and I found that I am a chaser with out even realizing it. I was wondering what is that you do instead just not text, or message them at all?

  25.  #25Rori Raye on August 7, 2014 at 2:44 pm

    Sarah – Welcome – and it’s way more than that! Read as much as you can here, get the ebook, and we’ll all help! Love, Rori