Rori Raye Relationship Tip: Do You Have To Use The “Feel” Word?

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Hi, This is Roriand I get asked this all the time:

“Rori, Can’t you make feeling statements without saying “I feel…”?  I feel like saying it so much is redundant and awkward.  Aren’t there other ways to make feelings statements without using those words?”

The answer is – No.

A “Feeling Statement”  is exactly what it is – a “Feeling Statement” –  capitalized because it’s a “Rori Raye Tool.”

The word “feel” here IS the tool. 

All by itself, it’s the tool.

Speaking the words “I feel” affects your inner workings, your mind, your body, your heart.

And it affects a man – his inner workings, his mind, his body, his heart.  It’s a word that – luckily for us – has this profound effect out there in the world.

After a lifetime of being told and believing that emotions are not good to show, and that we must tamp them down and stuff them down and avoid them at all costs and strive for being “reasonable”

and “efficient” and “competent” and “accomplished,” it turns out that emotions are what make us not only “human,” but actually charismatic, magnetic and attractive!

Feelings are your “ace-in-the-hole.”

Emotions are the “stuff” of us that make you more woman and less man – without diminishing your abilities, the sharpness of your thought, or your ability to succeed out there in the world.

Emotions fuel you, they heal you, and your emotions move OTHERS.

Meaning – the quality of your emotion, and the way in which you express your emotions is directly how you get more love in your life.

The trick for us is to get so “aware” of our emotions – the patterns of them, what triggers them, how they morph and change and and shift, and how it feels to not so much “manage” them as “feel” them.

And as that awareness grows – so does your faith in yourself.  In other words – your self-esteem and self-respect can grow powerfully as you become aware of, accept, love and express your emotions on deeper and deeper levels.

If being able to “do” any of these things: Be present, be loving, speak well, be smart, be successful, be kind, be sexy, know how to talk to men – isn’t getting you what you want in love, relationship and romance – my new, first-time-only Love Forever In 12 Weeks Live will get you there in 12 weeks.

There’s nothing to compare to one-on-one help, personal, targeted coaching for your unique needs, personality and situation. and I don’t coach privately anymore.

Yet, after my Love Forever Live Event in my home in October, the results in a group of 9 women were astounding, awesome – and made me know I had to keep doing live, personal events.

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THEN – you’ll have 4 sessions of one hour private coaching with one of my Rori Raye Coaches!

THEN – you’ll have hours and hours of materials, recordings, worksheets and Manuals, additional “clinics” on a specific Tool that one of my Teachers specializes in: Long Distance Relationship, Confidence Building, Sex!,  How To “Flow” through the changes you’ll be experiencing during our 12 weeks together.

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When you speak the word “feel” and use it as a channel to express what you feel – you’re working on “all burners.”

1. Becoming aware of what you feel
2. Putting words to what you feel
3. Expressing what you feel in a way that involves no one but you – and so is totally, 100% safety-making, self-trusting, world and man-trusting, self, world and man honoring…and…

…profoundly moving in the classical, artistic sense.

The faster you practice it in this structured way, the faster you learn how to do it brilliantly, and the faster you’re able to connect heart-to-heart with any man you choose.

Love, Rori

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  1.  #1Mystique on March 8, 2017 at 9:36 am

    I have known Rori since back in 09 and followed her blog and advice and even though I have not found a relationship yet (at my age hard to do) I have used her tools in every day interaction with people and they work. They work well and not just with men or for a relationship. They work with everyone – your boss, your neighbor, in business and everyday interaction with other people and maybe even in politics.
    Sometimes I forget to use them and have to kick myself in the butt and afterward think it could have gone differently if I had used Rori’s tools.
    Use the tools they work you will see a difference in your live big time

  2.  #2Rori Raye on March 8, 2017 at 7:52 pm

    Hi, Mystique – so great to have you back! I encourage anyone who thinks “at their age” is hard, to talk to Jamee Light – one of my Certified Coaches. She’s 69, and has the best, most fun, most exciting love life of anyone! She can help you do it, too – get her freebie on “Musical Chair Dating, which is her version of Circular Dating…