…The concept that being together, in the same space, touching, loving, is not necessarily a “joint” decision – is, perhaps, a decision in every moment by each of you independently – and so if one of you is lagging, feeling distance, the other can, through attention, bring the other through the block just by being there.

This is partnership.

AND – sometimes we have to teach a man through example, and sometimes we just want to walk away.


  1.  #1Teresa Clement on June 30, 2019 at 4:44 pm

    Hi Rori, I feel confused about what you’re saying here. This seems different from what I’ve heard you say about if a man withdraws. You usually say to let the space be, and seek other avenues of emotional fulfillment. What’s different about this?

    When you say “sometimes we just want to walk away,” what do you mean? Can you tell me more?

  2.  #2mary on July 15, 2019 at 7:44 pm


    I read the title “Stay or Go” and thought, “Oh, I have to read it! She’s speaking directly to me!”

    Oh, I miss the blog so much.

    Not wanting to get onto Facebook!