Big Concepts And Tiny Baby Steps Work Together For Love

BIG concepts, rather than moment-by-moment solutions (which I know is a frustrating way to go when you want to SOLVE something, or GET something – for me, too!) – are the “other side” of “tiny baby-steps.” In order to continually feel motivated to take those baby steps, and get results every time we do to…

Read More,,,

On Keeping Going Circular Dating

Your vibe shifts with practice.  Practice is the key here, and then finding a way to lift your spirits and motivation so that you feel curious about what and who is “next” rather than dread-filled.   I know from all my clients (and now my coaches’ clients!) experiences that the man for them, the lifelong…

Read More,,,

An Ultimate Girl

I just happened on this…an ultimate athlete and ultimate “girl.” Listen to how everything she says is about “How it feels….” !!    

Read More,,,

Vote For Yourself And Have It All!

I’m going to use voting as a Tool to feel more powerful – so let’s look at it from the personal perspective of your entire life – not just your love life. Let’s say that voting isn’t about politics – it’s about empowerment. It’s about believing that you count. Just you, one person, one woman. We get so…

Read More,,,

Repairing Your Trust In Love

The Question: Carol says, “Rori, How can I repair myself to trust and try again? I’m in my mid 50’s. I’ve been widowed for 16 years and I’ve only tried one relationship and it ended on his part with no warning and I feel shocked and I’m analyzing?” My Answer: Why are we so surprised…

Read More,,,

An Interview With Rori – Speaking From The Heart

Here are some bits and pieces from an interview I did years ago: I was asked: “What about the words you say you teach people to use?” Here was my answer: The words and body language and all the other tools I developed and teach look very different on different sides of the relationship dynamic.…

Read More,,,