Rori, Will you please be more explicit with your examples.. about what’s the true feminine way & what’s passive aggression?
– I know this cannot possibly feel clear for every situation – because each situation might require a completely different “Script” for you to use!
This is because it’s all about your “vibe,” and what’s underneath your words, that counts! Sometimes, straight-out asking for what you want with the simple Script: “Sweetie, I feel so happy being with you, and I’d love to have more contact by phone …is there some way we can help me with this?” –
AND, if you’ve been talking about this for a long time, getting upset when he doesn’t call, arguing, etc – if you begin with this Scrip, he may just fall into getting defensive – and sense in-authenticity and control.
You YOURSELF might not actually FEEL like being this sweet and straightforward – you might feel ANGRY! – so, we need a different Script.
If you want to experience how the coaches in Siren School coach you and teach you to Script yourself – try out Siren Island for a full month for $33 (don’t even bother if you just want the 7 days for $1 – it’s not enough time for you to fully grasp the transformational thing that Scripting is. It’s deeper than words!).
Here’s Siren Island – https://www.coachrori.com/lp/siren-island/ Love, Rori