To Slide Past Your Defenses And Let Love In…

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This is about opening doors, inner doors, but without drama, without kicking and pounding and shoving and oiling squeaks, and all the things we do to open stuck doors.

It’s about the baby-steps of shift.

Even the tiniest new thing entering your sphere is an opening for you.

All you need is to have even a momentary, hopefully recurring, experience of what it feels like to have the inner door that’s so long been shut to the “unknown” and to love – open a “crack”!

That’s all you need.

Just that tiny breath of new air through the crack.

As you keep practicing the tools, the door will crack open more and more – and some guy will just slide in – and there you’ll be!

This is a life-long process, it never stops…the only difference is there’s a “tipping point” where more is coming in that you’re used to – and it feels “okay.”

That’s when you feel bolder and more courageous, and that’s when things start to happen for you – and in a blink of an eye – you’re THERE!!!

Once that door opens for you, even if it feels unsettling and “new” – you’ll know it’s open more than it was. You’ll feel the breeze. You’ll feel the expansion. Just a little…

Then, Just keep rolling as you are…

Remember, feelings are unimportant meaning-wise.

It’s important to FEEL – but it doesn’t matter what those feelings ARE.

In other words – you will go up and down.

The rollercoaster is the way it goes!

Catch yourself judging the ups and downs, and catch yourself beginning to trust the ride!

BRAVA to YOU!!!!

Love Rori

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  1.  #1Daria on May 20, 2017 at 2:57 pm

    had a great first meeting/date! just now!

    am feeling really more melted and more confident

    got another shcheduled in a couple hours

    my health ive improved it so much am feeling so powerful and important with my power

  2.  #2Daria on May 20, 2017 at 2:59 pm

    have been feeling uptight bec got stood up about 30 times in a row lately

    and then listend to some rori stuff yesterday and opened up so muich! i was really being honest and Deep with my responses online after, instead of feeling at the surface

    men seemed IMMEDIATELY more engaged

  3.  #3Daria on May 20, 2017 at 6:40 pm

    i feel so smily and like im bursting now this date felt great too wowwwwie yayyyyyy


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  4.  #4Violet on May 25, 2017 at 9:11 am

    Hello… It’s been a LONG time since I’ve been on here. This man and I are going out as friends. My big faux paus was asking him if he thought the friendship would become more. He said it wouldn’t work (because of the distance between us (He’s in MD and I’m in PA). Then it’s like he fell off the face of the earth for almost three months. The last thing I expected was to lose a friendship over that question. Believe me; I learned my lesson the hard way. Anyway… He did call recently and we went out as friends again. I’ve decided to play it cool, go out and do my own thing, and just leave things the way they are between us. // Anyway… The main question I want to ask is how to get asked out on a date. I’m 60 yrs, don’t look, or act my age, strong personality, very assertive, a VERY good sense of humor and wit. I don’t dress or act over the top… I’d call my attire ‘Class with Sass’ or visa versa. None of my clothing is low cut, too tight, too hoochy mama, etc… I’d like to get asked out more. However; I can’t stand playing games. Sometime’s this whole thing with being a Siren feels like I am playing a game. I can’t be anything but who I am… any feedback on any of this? Please just come right out and say what’s on your mind. That’s how I roll. Thanks, Violet aka ‘Sweetie’

  5.  #5Indigo on May 25, 2017 at 11:49 am

    Hi Violet,

    Are you internet dating? On Tinder or Bumble? These are really the best places to get asked out on a date as men are already looking to connect with a woman romantically here.

    Other than that, I’d say just experiment and have fun with flirting. No need to be over the top – just a big smile and eye contact will often do the trick. Have fun and be playful with men you meet.

    Be open to making new friends too – you never know when one of them might introduce you to someone or invite you to a social event where you might meet someone.

  6.  #6Violet on May 27, 2017 at 5:55 pm

    Thank you, Indigo… That sounds like a wise decision and right up my alley. I’ve noticed myself being a siren without even trying. It’s fun to get all dolled up, flirt, and just go with the flow. Different men have told me that I come across as confident and naturally sexy. That’s fine with me! ๐Ÿ˜‰