Vote Today For Yourself

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Be in your Masculine Energy today – to get yourself to the polls to vote, and to make sure you have a book with you, your journal and a pen, so you can be a girl and have something fun to do while you’re waiting in line!

Sink into your Rori Raye work – feel what it feels like and write down what it feels like to wait in line at this historic moment in the world.  Whoever your candidate is, whatever your vote for the propositions on the ballot in your state – experience it as meaningful – and look for the message from whoever is standing in line with you.  You’re all there to learn something and have some kind of new experience.

Let me know if anything special happened for you personally today, and consider that what we are all doing – and that we are all doing this together, within these 12 hours – is quite magical.

After tonight’s results, let’s all commit ourselves to using our boy energy to make this a better world, and our girl energy to experience the pleasure of that – and allow ourselves to Be Surprised and feel how that feels – no matter what.

Love, Rori


  1.  #1Reshi on November 4, 2008 at 1:32 pm

    Well, I voted a couple weeks ago and got that out of the way–and am intentionally NOT going to watch the votes come in, because my watching won’t change the outcome one iota. I feel like the world could change based on the outcome of this election–now more so than any election I’ve been old enough to vote in–and I feel excited and scared to see the results.

    Today I spoke with the woman running the relationship seminar that my husband and I are going to in a couple weeks. I confessed to her that I was afraid of what would happen after we went–and damned if she didn’t tell me to go THROUGH the fear, keep expressing it to myself, and then set up an intention for what I wanted! Really, after working with Rori all this time, I saw that one coming. 😉 So I did a little Riff on that and came out with about the scariest thing that anyone could ever imagine–perhaps too scary for this blog? Rori, feel free to edit or delete this if it goes into that territory.

    It came out–pretty much immediately when I started Riffing–that aside from being afraid that my husband will reject me, withdraw even more, turn cold, leave, and pursue other women in front of my face, I’m also afraid that he’ll turn EVIL. That he has nothing left for me deep down inside but contempt. That he’ll slowly grow capable of beating me, raping me, killing me–or just leaving me at the mercy of someone else who would do those things to me–and then telling me it’s my fault.

    I already knew there was a part of me deep down inside that wants to kill HIM for not giving me (or my Stranger) what I want…but this was even scarier.

    And yes, I gave love to even that dark, terrifying image, and was then able to touch what I wanted, the feelings of love, my intentions for love, my intentions for what I wanted to achieve from going to the seminar–and I was able to see how much I FEAR LOVE!

    My mind found it harder to go to the joyful thoughts of my husband falling in love with me again than to thoughts and graphic images of the most horrible scenes imaginable!

    I know that Rori says that the deeper we go into our dark and icky emotions, the higher we can soar into the happy feelings…I hope that’s true because I think I hit the mother load of dark feelings this morning! And I hope this doesn’t mean I’m a candidate for the mental hospital…and I also just cried and cried for all the women out there in the world who have suffered those awful things that I fear so much, and felt so much rage that so many men in the world are so violent and animalistic…and I want to do something to help create a world where no woman ever has to experience rape, and I don’t know where to begin and I feel somewhat powerless, but that’s definitely going on my list of things to do with my Boy energy…and it’s a good thing I have so much free time right now because I am definitely feeling like going swimming in my emotional soup is probably the best, most important thing I could possibly do for my life right now.

  2.  #2Reshi on November 4, 2008 at 8:53 pm

    And here’s something actually relevant to both the election and relationships! OK, Reshi’s about to get political here, so please forgive.

    When I cast my vote for President, I didn’t vote based on the issues and I didn’t vote with my head–I voted with my heart and my gut, and I voted based on a long-held hope that I held for the direction I wanted to see the United States move in the future.

    Now I’m online obsessively checking the election results (like I said I wasn’t going to do), and I come across a forum where someone posted:

    “I am so happy that Obama is on track to win. Like Kennedy before him, I believe Obama is a Black Kennedy who will restore the trust of the American people in the US government, as well as restore the trust of other citizens of Earth.”

    And this triggered me because it’s exactly what I’m trying to do in a relationship. What I’m trying to do here is restore the trust of my man in me, and to restore MY trust in HIM…and most importantly to restore MY trust in ME.

    Whichever way the election goes, we’ll see change. We’ll have either a minority or a woman in the White House. And if the country can change, I can change, my life can change.

    I guess that’s ultimately what I’m taking from today.

  3.  #3Daria on November 4, 2008 at 11:40 pm

    Yay Reshi! Beautiful!

  4.  #4Rori Raye on November 5, 2008 at 10:58 am

    Reshi – Thank you so much for your glorious post – I can’t thank you enough for sharing your deep, dark thoughts, feelings and images – This is not only how YOU and I heal – but how the world heals.

    My answer is getting long – I’m going to put it in a post… Love, Rori

  5.  #5bright day on November 5, 2008 at 11:37 am

    Hi Rori,

    Congratulations to all the american people who voted for change yesterday!! Rori, I thank God for you. You have come into my life at a time of uncertainty. Little did i realize how much i have not been voting for myself. little did i realize how much i have done to sabotage me. I have carried hurt since my teen years, never got along well with my parents. I developed a fear of expressing my true feelings on issues and valued myself on how people viewed me. I suffer from low self esteem. I need to start voting for myself, I need to start feeling like a pond and being a pond. It has been rough for husband and he deserves to see the true me. He has been a source of strenght but at times i know he became wary. I deserve to see the true me.
    Do i start at heart tools kit or the modern siren program.
    Anxiously awaiting a response.

  6.  #6Rori Raye on November 5, 2008 at 5:50 pm

    bright day, welcome and thank you for your brilliant insight and bravery in dedicating yourself to YOU.

    Start with the ebook for the essential “basics,” make sure you truly work with the Tools, and then get Modern Siren.

    When you can, go back and get Reconnect Your Relationship and then Toxic Men and the Commitment Blueprint. Heart Connection Toolkit is great for self-esteem and boosting your morale – you can just keep it running all the time.

    Each program is completely stand-alone, and yet they all build on each other and have completely different Tools that you can only get in that particular program (For instance – the entire Rori Raye Dance position is in the Blueprint, and Modern Siren is entirely about ATTRACTION.)

    Let me know how you’re doing. Love, Rori

  7.  #7Yaya on December 2, 2008 at 7:16 am

    Hi Rori,
    I love all your tools. I don’t know if you’ve come up with this problem but I’m going to assume that a lot of women must be. Back when I was 25 I got breast augmentation mostly for me. Now I’m 35 and everywhere I turn people are putting down women with boob jobs. I understand and love boobs, natural ones but when I did this I was ignorant and my self-hatred was very high. Having implants have shown me many perspective about people and about me too. It’s so painful to know that so many people are disgusted with implants and I understand. But how do I handle this for my self now emotionally so that I can get out of the damaged-goods category. I’m not flaunting my breast to other women or men I just want to feel good inside. Could you help in anyway?

  8.  #8Rori Raye on December 2, 2008 at 11:35 am

    Yaya – if they look good (and I’ll bet they do) – why not enjoy them? I’ll bet there aren’t many men out there who don’t like them, whatever you may hear. In fact – they may get you a lot of great attention – and by the way – LOTS of women are still getting breast augmentation – because it’s STILL an attractive thing to most men – so there.

    It’s just like when men told their women how “disgusting” the Paris Hilton car-washing video was when it was the totally sexiest thing around (and it was EVERYWHERE) at that time – they were lying. so stuff you hear may just be the “buzz” – but it has nothing to do with what men really like.

    If you really are that uncomfortable with them, tho – go talk to a doctor and get them removed or reduced. Whatever feels good to YOU is what you should do. I really do believe that men LOVE your boobs. Love, Rori