When Your Husband Walks Out…

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The Question:

“Rori, Dilemma, I have read 2 of your books, 1 ebook, 1 hard copy. Waiting for the 3rd to get here. Husband walked out a month ago, little to no communication. I am confused because you say don’t chase push him. Do I reach out or just let him go? Where do you draw the line? Any help is appreciated. Thanks L

My Answer:

L, This is a very complex answer, and what I say in a sentence or two might not even be understandable, yet, I’ll try: Circular Dating is the cure.  

If he’s not in front of you, and not talking to you, he’s not feeling you.

Or, what he feels from you (yes, even though you’re not in the same space) is what he “used” to feel and think – and what he needs to feel and think now is something NEW!

The only way to accomplish that is to literally refresh your own self.

It’s not a matter of reaching out or letting go.

It’s a matter of taking really, really good care of yourself, speaking to him in heart open Feeling Messages when he does call (he will) – and learning a new skill set.

Circular Dating isnn’t about “dating” – there are lots of articles here on the blog that will spell out all the steps you need to take (just write Circular Dating in the “search” box).

It’s about practicing with other men (yes, online now!) so that when a high-stakes conversation with this man you have strong feelings for and a history with shows up (and it will!) – you’ll know how to be truly vulnerable, open, warm, and speaking in Feeling Messages.

I will copy Siren School Director Coach Natalina Love with this letter, so she can write to you about Siren island and Siren Circle Private Coaching – which would be amazing for you – 3 full sessions plus 4 weeks of 24/7 voice messaging support/coaching for 4 weeks…(I think the info pages are here on the website… https://www.coachrori.com/siren-school-siren-circle/)  Love, Rori

 

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