To be a Warrior Woman For Love…take off your “figure him out” hat.
Figuring things out is a great hobby of mine – I love Escape Rooms and puzzles – and yet – trying to figure things out with a man is not fun.
It doesn’t get you where you want to go.
When you’re trying to “figure out” what’s going on with a man, or how the relationship will go – it’s not helping.
Once you learn – through the Modern Siren Tools and practicing them – how to literally stop that “figuring out” energy, and, instead, just feel your way through “moments” – that’s when things begin to “flow.”
Stick with what’s going on with a man in the moment that this man connects or texts with you.
Learn to Script THOSE moments easily, and verbally, and “float” through all the stuff flying around inside your head around it.
This is how you’ll have your “Solution!”
Quick and easy!
Stop trying to “reconcile” – and instead begin to learn to trust yourself more on a feeling basis in the MOMENT.
This is about just zeroing on on your feelings – not from bouncing through Feelings that come up when you THINK about things.
Try this: If a man is NOT in FRONT OF YOU in this exact moment, by text, or in person – notice when you’re thinking of him or about him, and let that fade by replacing those thoughts with Being Present.
Touch something, Track into your body. STAY with what’s in front of you, and find as much Beauty as you can.
Please try this 1000 times a day – and let me know how it goes.
What you want to not do is “shut down.”
And “shutting down” is our normal response to so much information and feelings going through us and coming at us.
You are likely shutting down automatically with a man just because of the tumultuous feelings inside you.
The solution to the automatic shut down is to NOT try to figure anything out.
Instead – just NOTICE how things are happening inside you. How the urge to shut down is always there.
Truly – you are able to hold, flow through and experience WAY more emotion than you “think” possible right now.
No matter how scared, impatient, frustrated, angry or hurt you feel – there’s nothing for it but to go with it, experience it, and work primarily on noticing it all and FEELING it.
Let it fill you and go through you. Let it expand inside you, instead of trying to turn it into “results.”
“Figuring Out” is the road to “stuckness.”
Expanding is the key to Siren-ness.
Love, Rori Raye